Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Please i need help with a false accusation?

i really need some help here guys. i cant go into specific details, but 9 months ago i was falsely accused of molestation of my oldest daughter. there hasn't been any arrests or anything like that. i have taken 2 polygraph tests and the first one was inconclusive and the second one he said will either pass or be another inconclusive. im waiting to hear the results. the prosecutor says i had till the 1st of the year to pass a poly or she would pursue charges. its now the 3rd and nothing again has happened. we have so much going for me in this, there isn't a single person who believes my daughter. we have consolers, child protective services and psychologist reports state that she is lying and that its a case of parental alienation. my lawyer said if i pass the poly, it should end it. but im really worried here that i may loose my life from this. im out of options and im scared, i did nothing wrong. i still am allowed to even live in my home with my 4 year old daughter and see my son ?Please i need help with a false accusation?
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I'm very surprised that your lawyer let you take a poly. As you say, they are inadmissable in court anyway, and the DA is under NO obligation to stick with her promise not to charge you if you pass one.





DO NOT follow the advice above to 'sit down with' your ex and the alleged victim and talk about this. Your ex is obviously mad at you, and such a conversation could be twisted, against you, or prosecuted by the DA as witness tampering.





The best news I can give you is that with cases involving the molestation of a child, the longer it goes, the better your chances that it's not going to be prosecuted. DA's know that kids memories fade rapidly, and that to get a conviction in a genuine case they generally need to move fast.





Richard
I don't think you have anything to worry about. Polygraphs aren't admissible in court as evidence, anyway. Plus, there needs to be physical evidence or an eyewitness, not just your daughter's word.
Once you pass the poly I'd ask the prosecutor to consider prosecuting your ex for filing false child abuse charges against you, in most states it is a felony and she could actually do some time. Right now I know it is difficult to do but if your innocent, just relax and wait for the inevitable happen. Then go back after your ex and try to get felony false child abuse charges against her and seek FULL custody of your children. Good luck.
They don't need to prove the case to charge you, they need to prove the case to convict you.





That being said, it sounds like there is a lot of evidence that supports you. if it goes to trial this can all help.
OK sounds a Little to serious, but i will try to help a Lil. What i think is going on here is that the daughter is lying because she misses you and is sad that you left her mommy. I have heard of this just recently by someone else close to home. Mom could even be hurt and saying things to the daughter or even pre-coaching her. Don't quote me on any of this but; polygraph test are most of the time inadmissible in court. In some states. I guess i would try to seriously get to the problem and talk with the daughter doing the false reports and let her know that these lies could really mess up your life and everyone else involved. Not only is there legal repercussions to this but mental. What i seriously think is she feels abandoned and whats to hurt you like she is hurting not knowing the seriousness of this story. (Lets hope its a story) I don't know you or your past but if its true she'll live with it forever and so will you. If it is a lie you'll still live with it now that its already out there. Get some help with a group called parents/ or a mens group. Even Narcotics Anonymous can help. They don't just handle drugs or people who abuse drugs. There a fellowship who can help you with a lot of other issues as well or someone there can point you in the right direction. Good Luck and i hope all works out for you!!
You need to sit down with the mother of your child and the child (even if she is 4 years old) and explain to them how this could hurt your future and possibly have some impact on theirs. If you didn't do it, then you have nothing to lose.
Unfortunately, innocent people are often arrested for crimes they did not commit and given jail sentences. It has now become guilty until proven innocent, and that is what you have to do. Keep and document all of the information as it relates to the false accuser, set up a way to get a text message or conversation where she implicates herself as the liar, request she take a lie detector test with regard to the allegations, hire a private investigator to get information as it might relate to a ';revenge'; hit against you. And fasten your seatbelt.
It sounds to me like the child has been coached into saying it or the child had a tantrum. This happens so often in this country and with that stigma hanging over your head, knowing no such thing ever occurred, it makes life unbearable. Often teenage children will say that just to get even with an adult for grounding them. I feel for you and hope by God, you are telling the truth. If it were me, I'd leave the State I lived in and never go back.

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