What can we do to protect our sons from false rape accusations?

In fact, what can we do to protect our sons from false legal accusations, in general. It seems, more and more, many women are accusing men, (especially rich men) falsey for money, advancement, power, or all. Such as the ';Duke Lacross'; case. How can we stop this injustice?What can we do to protect our sons from false rape accusations?
corny as it seems, maybe try to re-establish traditional families as the norm. Teach kids that lying is wrong. This is really just a small aspect of a larger problem - that bullshitting is okay if you can profit from it. See it everywhere, in business, in the courts, in the media (tabloids being the obvious extreme, but even the networks are guilty of it). So we could use a bit of help from those vultures, too.





Society has become progressively more amoral. There are lots of reasons for this, and the short list I gave is by no means comprehensive.





But, anyway. Hopefully you don't have to teach little boys that raping is wrong, but the fact is that those raised in a decent, stable, two parent home are lots less likely to do it, and women raised in the same situation are much less likely to commit criminal acts - which is what a false accusation of rape is.What can we do to protect our sons from false rape accusations?
First and foremost is the issue of playing with someones feelings. Why would these ladies feel compelled to lie about rape, unless they were desperate. Guys should not run around chasing ladies for the sake of sex, and then finding out later that they had sex with a psycho. Get to know the person for who they are, before you ever think about having sex with them. Its just basic morality.
I know what i'll do to protect my sons when they get older...take them overseas to find a wife.
I'm having a really hard time dealing with this. :(((





High five!





Oh and demanding actual evidence of violence of some sort couldn't possibly be the answer.





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I'd have to say hold legislators (and lawyers) responsible who are making this crap possible.





While rape is a serious crime, it's also a pretty serious accusation to lay on someone.





I also say guys should stay away from certain kinds of girls--like the ';brazen hussy'; types.
I don't believe there is anything you CAN do to prevent it, unless all men want to move to a deserted island with no women...3 of us at one time were great friends--2 of us gals and a guy. Everyone called us the 3 Musketeers...until one day she accused him of raping her. I was in shock. I couldn't believe he would do that to someone and I couldn't believe she would like about something so horrible, especially when she held my hand through a rape crisis may years ago. It broke up a great friendship circle. It took over a year for it to be settled, if you want to call it that...he passed a polygraph and she finally admitted it he didn't rape her, but none of us has been the same since...I never spoke to her again and I see him every now and again and he is messed up over it. Even though he was cleared, the accusation still hangs over his life and because she is in and out of the loony bin, she has nothing he can sue her over. What is even sadder is there are women out there who are actually being raped and no one believes them because of these women that make all these false accusations and these DA's that push the charges even when all the evidence proves otherwise, such as in the Duke La Crosse case. We can do some things to prevent it, such as not putting ourselves into the position to be raped or be accused of rape, but that's next to impossible. About all any of us can do--whether victim or accused--is the best we can once it happens...sad, isn't it, that the world has come to this?
Not much can be done about this problem..


It is a serious legal fault in our system...
What we have to understand is that we are in a terrible predicament right now - woman are being raped without recourse to justice and men are accused of rape without recourse to justice|





It is the times that we are now living in|





The only thing we can do is endure the injustice for the time being - its painful, but you will survive (I myself am *very* experienced at this - I have been betrayed so many times that when it happens, It doesn't even phase me anymore)|








This is all the result of modern *public education,* *academia,* and the *media,* which have rejected traditional Judeo-Christain morality - that has been the only bulwark of sanity and justice in our society| (the unholy trinity)|





They do this by painting a false picture of the traditional way - of its ';repressivness'; - by *selectively* presenting accounts of it|





Of course there were problems and abuses with the old way, but not nearly to the extent that is portrayed|





The past, although not perfect, was a far happier and a far more just time|





Just consider this: In the past (like in the 50's, and even the 60's and the 70's), did we have all the terrible gang and violence problems that we have today? Did we have the massive breakup of families and all the single mothers living in destitution that we do today?








Of course they talk about patriarchal oppression and the fact that if a woman was raped, it was a terrible shame almost without any recourse to justice - but hey - look at today - never have women been more used and abuse by men as they have today - and rape is now endemic - and do you think they get justice?








I think that the movers and shakers of our society have sold us a bill of goods|














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I have a son and today you have to teach them not to stick it in period.





I have witnessed (my own daughters -- not raised by me but my ex) lie get knocked up hide STD's cheet and play who's the dad based on paycheck. And then they pitch rocks at the men they abouse and watch socity support their immoral and in my opinion illegal behavior.





Thank god for DNA tests and honestly American women have got to the point I thing I'll take my son overseas to find a wife.





Next best alternative is a good religious community were women are raised to be GOOD mothers rather than its an OK to Lie tramps.





Just tell your son not to date, carefull screen his girlfriends, run a background check and send a chapparone every whre they go.
A good deterrent might be to sentence false accusers of the same punishment as their alleged assailants.





As severe as those are, it might not be such an attractive course of action to make a false claim.





Bonzai Betty:


So why is it okay to say that a man was asking for it, but when a guy says the same thing about a woman, it's almost a criminal offense? Talk about double standards!





ANOTHER EDIT:


Here's something interesting... http://www.ncfm.org/FACT1.HTM
Introduce innocent untill proven guilty. The way I see it, a jury can rule guilty (or innocent) although there may not be enough evidence, it boils down to whom the jury believes, When the accusations can not be proven (as it is often the case when it comes to rape) the accused should be able to walk away. If she has no intention to become intimate with him in the first place, she has no buisness to retire with him to a bedroom of some sort where they are all on their own with no witnesses around anyway.


Do not teach children and boys to keep their hands to themselfs, its unrealistic instead tell them that if they want sex, but have no intention to marry the woman, to go to a brothel. They should also be taught to look for wifely qualities in a woman instead of hot looks and again, unless she approaches him they should get used to get the sex they want in a brothel instead of fighting over it with their wifes.
Carrie your answer was horrible. Quite the feminist approach you took to this question, immediately disclaiming that more than ';5'; false accusations of rape have ever occured. I like that statistical data, very thorough. The truth is, most rape cases are his word against hers, and since rape is such a demoral act in society's eyes, its guilty until proven innocent. Who are you to say that more cases aren't false accusations, theres no way of proving it! As for the motives behind the act of rape, I think its pretty clear, sheesh.
How would you like a big inmate rape you? Women are being molested every 2 minutes in New York%26gt; These are Not men!
Teach them to keep their hands to themselves...
cut him off.
I find your question, and some of the answers, incredibly depressing. THANKS.





I don't think that this problem is as large as you say it is. Media reports of false rape accusations are blown up and sensationalized because men like you LOVE to hear it. I'm sure it makes you strangely satisfied in a way because to you, it is confirmation that women are conniving bitches and the world is out to get men.





Truthfully, there are always a small percentage of assholes, men and women, who make false accusations about various things - assault, robbery, rape, etc. And to some people, those few are enough to make the assumption that this issue is huge. Those people also ruin it for the rest of victimized people.





Now. Back to your question. I think the most effective way to ';protect your sons'; from all the, umm, five or so women who have made false rape accusations is to provide more education about rape and rapists' intentions. All the anti-rape information I see is strictly about sex, and no information is widely distributed about the dominance and control factors of rape culture. Maybe if women were more aware of men's intentions behind rape, they would have a better understanding of the seriousness of it and wouldn't falsely accuse men.
CUT YOUR BALLS OFF.





In sum:





-“ teach them not to stick it in”


-“ cut him off”.


-“ Teach them to keep their hands to themselves..”


- “CUT YOUR BALLS OFF”


-“ [go] overseas”...keep going and going and NEVER STOP…”