Wednesday, February 10, 2010

How do you deal with false accusations from people?

that call you toxic?How do you deal with false accusations from people?
you know yourself more than anyone. accusations will always remain as mere words. you should just go on with your life, ignore these people as paying attention to them would just award their behavior. do what you think is right. just ignore them, that's the best way...^_^How do you deal with false accusations from people?
i completely agree with no se. you can make those accusations, as you call it, a reassessment of yourself and what you do which made them label you as such. but at the end of the day, you know who you are. if it is a false accusation, then just ignore it. it's not worth your time and energy.
an accusation saying that you stole something, is something that can be proven (mostly), and as long as there's no proof, it's easy to disregard.





Now, when someone thinks you are toxic, they are talking about how the feel about you. It doesn't make you what they call you, but it should be an eye opener for you. Some people can perceive you like that, so it wouldn't hurt to look at yourself and try to find out why that is. Sometimes, the answer would be in the other person's own issues, and sometimes on you. I think it takes two to tango.
Repeat the mantra...





';Sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never hurt me.';





Ignore those petty people.





If you're worried about your ';rep'; - you're going to enter an endless spiral of petty narrow-mindedness.





In other words, you'd have to go as low as them to keep up.
Tell them: why don't you just shut up and breastfeed your cats for ten years and then tell me I'm toxic!!!

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