How can someone confront a false accusation of a sexual crime?

I was accused of a sex crime on a child with no medical evidence and no charges filed but this child happens to be my fiance's son and I was hoping to adopt him and Iam being told can I can never see or talk to him again.I am trying to contact a attourney but no luck so far I have heard of this happening alot but where do I start or should I just give up on true love and the family I've always dreamed of. I don't understend I thought it was innocent until proven guilty.How can someone confront a false accusation of a sexual crime?
Contrary to popular opinion in cases involving allegations of child sexual abuse, you will be presumed guilty until you can prove yourself innocent. You should get away from this mother, and her child, if no charges have been filed. You do not need this headache. Believe me, I spent nine years representing males in cases of false allegations of child sexual abuse. I only handled those cases in which I believed the accused. However, it will your burden to prove your innocence. There is an unspoken presumption in these matters that the accused is guilty. It can take thousands of dollars to fight a case like this. Get away as fast as you can and if you are charged, get a good lawyer right away and do not talk to anyone investigating the case without legal representation. Good luck.How can someone confront a false accusation of a sexual crime?
This may sound brutal, but DUMP the fiance %26amp; move on, as fast as you can.





This is only going to be the first in a long string of problems that you will have with these people over the years.





You'll find ';true love'; else where, what you have here is not that !!!
POLAR BEAR has the right idea.





(I am assuming you are female since you referred to your ';fiance'; which is the term for a man engaged to be married. If you used the wrong term and are male, then just switch the gender in what I say below. )





The son may not like you and resents you taking the place of his mother, specially if she died. He may see it as his father does not love his mother anymore and you coming into the picture is a betrayal. He has found an effective way to keep you out. Or it could be the parents divorced and the kid still has an idea that the parents might get back together again. If his father marries, that chance is gone.





You have not said what his father has said or done in regards to this.





If the father is taking the side of his son, you may as well move onto another man. It will be the two of them against you forever, even if you can work through this problem. Every time there is an issue between you and the son, the father will take the side of the son. It is a losing situation for you.





If the father is taking your side, that will only alienate the child further and in the mind of the child, confirm his worst fears. The resentment will only get worse as the child will see he is ';losing'; his father as well as his mother. You need to get out of the picture and let the child get some mental health counseling so he can work through his issues.





As a matter of morbid interest, you might keep track of the father and son after you get out of the picture. If the father finds a new love and the same thing happens, you will have confirmation that it is the kid that is the problem, not you. Might not help but the satisfaction of being proven right, even if belatedly is worth it.
you have been had, and there is not a lot you can do and it will get worse and they will make your life miserable and when dealing with sex and children your are guilty from the word go and even if proven innocent, the people will only remember that you were once arrested for molesting the kid.
Just say I didn't do it
Yeah, it's innocent until proven guilty in the COURT OF LAW...not in other people's opinions...huge difference. And break it off with your fiance. It's obvious that the kid's got some attention/mental problem that could've been the mother's and/or the father's fault for bringing that on. You deserve better.
You need a really really good attorney. I do not know where you live..... try the link below. Good luck!!