Sunday, February 7, 2010

How do you deal with false accusations and criticism?

This person (whom i can now call a nemesis because i hate her so much) falsely accused me of saying something i did not and went around telling people that i did. And people, being the stupid creatures we are, believed her without ANY proof. And now i've heard some pretty bad comments about myself from friends who claim to have heard things from people. What the hell seriously? Some of these people i don't even know for god's sake.How do you deal with false accusations and criticism?
How I deal with false accusations is to say ';prove it'; If someone is talking smack about me, I simply say ';prove it'; It stops them cold. Now they have to think about what they were saying. I don't allow them to say they heard this from ';somebody'; I make them prove who told them this or that. It is funny how the stories change when you call people out and make them prove it. Suddenly the stuttering starts and the stories start to change, and they look like an idiot. Call them out and make them prove what they are saying and who told them this or that.How do you deal with false accusations and criticism?
Sorry to say this but you may need to reconsider who your friends really are. If, like you say, people are believing these things without any proof then are they really worth your time??


And these people that you dont even know they definately arent worth your time. Who are they?!?!


It is unfortunately human nature for people to spread rumours, without consideration for others, however rumours die down, and eventually what goes around comes back around. As cliched as that sounds...


As hard as it may be, you're better of just keeping your chin up and rising above it all. At the end of the day you know the truth and thats all that should matter.
All you can do is stay true to yourself and be the best person that you can. Do not sink to their level and begin spreading untrue stories about others. Those that believe such tales without any proof, you don't want around you anyway. After some time, people will realize the truth and come around to ';your side';.
Keep in mind that it's false, then cruise through your school and ignore everything that people insinuate, whisper or throw at you.


Knowing that everything they say is a lie, will pull you through. Do, not, forget it. When people ask you, tell them that what they hear is bullshit and scoff. Maintain a positive attitude.





Perhaps it's easier said than done, but try your best. Don't let it all get to you.
you know you didnt that all that counts. dont worry about her. people will figure it out. she is trying to hurt you and its work'n


treat her with kindness i know this sounds dumb but if others see your treating her like this. %26gt; nice%26lt; they will really wonder about the stuff she is saying.


if you have a buddy. from somewhere else have him ask her out. he might find some dirt on her. or inside stuff. which would be good too. she might wear granny panties. or stuffs. or has that special tramp stamp on her back. no one knows about.

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